How Many Times?

June 8, 2017
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Matthew 18:21-22 – Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times." (NIV)

I grew up in a large family with three brothers and two sisters. Usually, we all got along very well, but sometimes, a fight would break out, and we would end up pitching fits against each other. My poor mother had to come in and stop the racket, scold us for fighting, and then get us to apologize to one another. Sometimes, I didn't want to do this, so I was sent to my room until I was willing to say "Sorry" and reconcile with my brothers and sisters.

When I read of Peter asking Jesus about how many times he should forgive his brother or sister, I know exactly how that feels. It makes me like Peter even more because he's just so completely human. He expresses what is on his mind, and this passage shows us that he feels as though his brother or sister is taking him for granted. Peter reckons that if he has forgiven his sibling seven times, then that is more than generous. He wants Jesus to affirm what he feels; he's not really asking a question, he's asking for approval.

As usual, Jesus uses the moment to teach Peter about forgiveness. The reply that Jesus gives is as if Jesus were saying to him, "Only seven times? Not even seventy-seven times would be enough." Some translators even render it "seventy times seven".

Forgiveness is a gift that we all seek from God on a daily basis. I guess that if I were to add up the number of times that God has forgiven me, it would run into the millions. And because God is so willing to pardon and forgive me, He expects me to do the same with others: my family, my friends, church members, work colleagues, neighbours, and even my enemies. Forgiveness is one of the most important aspects of our Christian faith, so we should practice and apply it on a daily basis.

Point to ponder: Have I withheld forgiveness from someone? Am I willing to let God help me to forgive?

Prayer: Lord Jesus, forgiveness was so important to You that You were willing to sacrifice Your life so that we could all be forgiven. Grant us the courage and strength to forgive those who have hurt, disappointed, or angered us. In Your holy name, we pray. Amen.

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1 Comment

  • PresbyCan Feedback says:

    How did you know? Thanks.

    Always a good reminder John.

    I needed this message today John. God Bless your continued ministry through these devotions.

    Thank you, John.
    Forgiveness also is a wonderfully healing experience for the person who forgives — at least it has been so for me. But it can be hard for sure.

    As always, a great reflection.
    Thanks for all you do,

    Ah forgiveness. It is very hard for us humans, isn’t it? Especially with the recent bombings and shootings in Britain. And….no one close to our family had been affected by this. It would be harder to forgive a person that killed your daughter or grandchild.

    Good message John.
    Very timely too!!!!
    Methinks, forgiveness is one we all have to be willing to give more often than we’d care to think.
    This made me begin my day with a different attitude … brought me off of my pedestal (so to speak).
    Thank you.

    Dear John Stuart,
    Thank you for an always-needed devotional for us human beings.
    Keep writing.

    Hi John,
    Re: your points to ponder, I don’t think there is any one I have not forgiven for a perceived injustice to me, but to be honest I have not forgotten. A good memory can be a hindrance at times.
    Thank you for writing and reminding.

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